31 to 35- Dealing with regret

31 weeks until my 35th Birthday.  So many possibilities can happen in 31 weeks. Today my mind has been filled with lots of regrets. We all have them, why are they so haunting. They can suck all and any motivation you have in you. As I was feeling the urge to write a poem about the heaviness of regret (you know cause I'm artsy like that ;-) I remembered something very important. Regret can't change anything. You can't go back and change anything. The only option is to move forward and move on.  It seems crazy that we let things that are unchangeable prevent us from doing what we want. We let the negative thoughts come in and remind us of our failures. The toxic combination of regret and procrastination keeps the majority of us right where we are instead of where we should be.