How are we going to fix me??

OK, so today was another beautifully frustrating day.  DH was at a car show so just the boys & I again today.  So much craziness & things going wrong.  Started the morning off w/ DS2 peeing all over our big chair. Had to take the cover off to wash it & then as I was changing him he peed on our ottoman.  Then DS1 dropped his 3DS in the dog's water bowl & then it not working.  DS2 decided to throw fits & cry 90% of this morning. So while I am trying to take apart the 3DS to get the water out he is screaming trying to crawl up my legs asking me to pick him up. We had to go to the grocery store, out of milk, so off we went. To try to pick up the boys moods we went thru a drive thru for milk shakes. I always get them one & an extra cup to give DS2 some. well as I was dividing it out I dump milk shake all into my lap. My Mom was with me & kept telling me I was missing some of the milk shake. Looking down I could see nothing and my poor Mom had to be the one to tell me it was under my fat belly roll.  So Now on our way to the store my jeans & bottom of my shirt stiff & wet from Vanilla Milk shake. We get to the only for me to find out I left my debit card at home. And all this before noon!!!  After events like that I just want to scream from the roof tops. I was able to have some down time tonight & watch a movie w/ DH. So I was thinking about how on earth am I going to make this work. I need to diet because that is no time away from the family. Wondering if I should put the whole gym them on hold all together until I get eating under control.  SO I need some structure & accountability. Even though Weight Watchers works great I abuse the point system by what I choose to eat. I am not sure if that is because I feel like I have to many options or because of the rebellious side of me that is convinced that it isn't fair that I have to suffer this way.  I was thinking about joining LA Weight Loss at home so that I can keep my options limited.  Not sure what I am going to do but I feel like counting calories & WW just has to many options. :-/